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Friday, May 19, 2006
Learn to not sweat
the small stuff
With the arrival this week of
my two crew members, Scott and Steve, my life on the boat took a major
turn. I'm having fun now. Even with passage preparation in full swing,
problems cropping up like whack-a-moles and sweat pouring off us in big
fat drops, we're laughing.
The propane sprung a leak? Haha. We'll probably want to fix that.
Batteries won't hold a charge? Oh, those rascals.
Sweat stinging the eyes too much to see? Hah, then let's go snorkeling.
The arrival of my friends with all their enthusiasm about our upcoming
voyage drove home an important point. This trip is not about the boat,
but about where the boat will take us, and what we will discover when we
get there.
Like, for instance, my gang of sharks.
To reward myself for my hard work, one morning last week I joined a
local dive boat that went out on daily trips from this Raiatea marina.
Since neither the dive master nor the other divers spoke English, and my
French is limited to baguette, pate and "frites" (fries), our
communication was limited.
Subsequently, I had no idea where we were going, how deep the dives
would be or what special creatures, if any, I could expect to see.
"Doesn't matter," I thought. "You can't talk while diving anyway."
My fellow divers were slow getting ready, and I was the first to tumble
backward over the side. And then I looked down. Six big sharks (sharks
are always big when you're alone in the water with them) were swimming
straight toward me. "Um, what's happening here?" I wondered. "Do the
others know about these sharks? What kind are they? Are they expecting
food? If so, what kind of food?"
It was scary not to be able to ask the dive master about these
too-friendly fish. I breathed deeply and watched the sharks circle me.
The others jumped in, and I watched the dive master talk to the nervous
novices.
Apparently, this shark activity was normal at this site, because we were
soon on the bottom. The three gray and three black-tipped reef sharks,
as big and bold as any I've seen, escorted us throughout the dive.
Having these kinds of experiences is one of the reasons I'm here. I also
came to have fun, and for that, I've chosen the right crew.
"Oh no, not my stove!" our chef, Scott, joked when the propane went on
the fritz. Laughing, we scoured the shops until we found the parts to
fix it.
Steve, an emergency doctor and lifetime sailor, also keeps me smiling.
Besides being an excellent improviser, he's the
Don't-Sweat-the-Small-Stuff king. "And it's all small stuff," he always
adds with a grin.
So this adventure is not just about the boat. "But it's not just about
the trip, either," my Hawaii friend e-mailed this week.
"It's about the spirit that moves you to take this voyage and your
willingness to take on the challenges. It's about the discoveries you
will make about yourselves."
I would add that it's also about friendship.
We will be leaving Raiatea today, just as soon as we finish a few
repairs.
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